The New You Post Narcissistic Abuse

When God awakens us to narcissism and the abuse, it is inevitable that we become a new creature; a new version of ourselves that He intended for us to become from the beginning. We were never meant to stay under the cloud of confusion, walking on eggshells, or trauma bonded to the world. We are meant to find our divine purpose and do the perfect will of God. 

A new you post narcissistic abuse is going to happen because we are being reborn again in spirit after all the traumatization we endured our whole lives. During the process of being reborn again in spirit, we got through the transformation by the renewing of the mind as we are instructed to do in Romans 12:2. It is not an option to stay as you were before God awakened you to the true evil of this world! Plus, repentance is part of the new you who will stay in obedience to God. 

As stated in the March 2026 newsletter, the new you is the version of you that God intended for you to become when He created you. Narcissists don't want you to ever realize that you are called to do great things; the calling on our life is higher than what is in and of this world. Jesus said in the Bible that we will do greater works than "thee." In other words, we will do greater works than we have ever done before God awakened us! How beautiful is that? 

Another part of the beauty behind becoming a new you is that you will gain more clarity about life and how God works. Spiritual growth is getting closer to God, the spirit on the inside of you, so you learn how He works even better the further along you get in the spiritual awakening. The clarity obtained is from Him with our moments of reflection to connect dots and unlearn old beliefs. Becoming a new you is full of excitement and anticipation about what God will reveal next. One of those reveals is how there is truly abundance all around us to live life abundantly. 

It takes a bit to develop the abundance mindset so you can see it in the physical and it does happen! Sometimes you will see the abundance in the most crazy way too, like with your leftover food. We were never taught to think of our leftover food as abundance and when we learn how Jesus turned five loaves of bread into abundance to feed 5,000 people, we see things differently and abundantly. Once you develop the abundance mindset, you will see abundance all around you in many ways with many things. Abundance includes God creating all things new as you become a new you. 

All things created new by God will be in abundance and that includes items that will last you the rest of you lifetime. You will not have to replace so many items anymore because God has you get new and better. Plus, as a chosen child of God, you are never hard on your belongings anyway and that leads to them lasting a long time - abundance. Keep becoming the new you fellow warrior! God is waiting on you. 

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